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5 Great Steps To Getting A Girlfriend

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Written by Tyler Moss

Sunday, 16 March 2008

by TylerMoss

At some point in your life your going to want to have a great woman in it. Not a bunch of women just one really great woman. That one woman that allows you stop waisting your time dating and can allow you to focus on the other great things in your life. So without further ado I'm going to give you a five step plan that will help you find and get that girlfriend.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

Its hard to find the right relationship if you don't know what you want from a relationship. So you have to ask yourself some questions. "What is most important to me in a relationship?" "How will this relationship fit into my lifestyle?" If a woman can't meet your relationship needs then she isn't suitable to be your girlfriend.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Some guys like short-term flings so that they don't have to worry about what to look for in a woman. But for a good relationship you do need to worry about what you want in a woman.

You need to decide what sort of woman you want. Do you want a girl who has similar interests? Do you want a party girl? What sort of women should you avoid because you know you wont like them? These are the sorts of questions you need to ask yourself.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

You should try to meet women at places that interest you. If you like art then go to places where you can see art and learn about art. If you like live music then go check out some new bands playing in your area. If you want to stay away from girls who like to party then don't go to clubs to meet women. This one is just common sense so use it.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

When you know what kind of woman you want, and where to find her, approaching becomes much easier. You simply talk about things that you can both easily relate too. At the beach you could ask her if she wants to play volleyball. At the bookstore you ask her for an opinion on a good book. This gets gets the conversation started easily.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

You can get her number fairly quickly if you want to. However, I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile. This pays off later when you are trying to make plans with her. In short it helps reduce flaks. You can try something like this. "I want to see you again. Put your number into my cell."

Where To Go From Here

Don't stop at one woman. You will need to date many women to find the right woman. This allows you to figure out what you like about certain women and what you don't like about certain women. In the end you will be able to make a much better decision because of this.

About the Author:

Learn how to approach, talk, and attract amazing women by being a charming man. Learn more at How to approach women to get over your fears of meeting attractive women.