Dating Tips: Attracting a "10

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Written by Vin DiCarlo

Sunday, 13 July 2008

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

by VinDiCarlo

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But first off, let go waaay back...

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I've talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...

Ah, the unreachable "10," a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because every other guy does that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.

As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."

Let me clarify.

You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.

First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.

The so-called "10's" has two different types.

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.

In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

May sound harsh but I call it like it is.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)

Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

HSE 10's usually have good attitudes, have a direction in life, are intelligent, and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.

The Attraction Code is about being a "male 10," the best man you can be.

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you'll have plenty of "adventures" to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't spend another year of your life missing out.

Vin

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