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Written by Rameesh Kumar

Sunday, 08 June 2008

by RameeshKumar

The most common advice given when it comes to flirting with women is that one should try to know as much as possible about her. Some girls like to get into relationship in an old fashioned way while other are straight forward and do not feel shy in expressing their feelings. You should learn about them before you try to get into relationship with them. To make your way easy to win her get to know more about her likes and dislikes and find out whether she is an outgoing girl or a shy one. Knowing about her will help you to approach her in a better way.

There are numerous keys to flirting, which if followed properly can be quite effective. You should be steady, but not slow and boring. Avoid simply leaping out at her, which may make her nervous due to which she may start avoiding you. You may slowly start to turn into a person who is familiar, funny and interesting. You should keep smiling whenever you pass her in the corridors and ensure to hold her gaze once in while. Do not waste the time in long conversations; just let her know that you are around and friendly.

Continue this for one or two weeks, till seeing each other becomes a common thing. She will get use to seeing you around, and this can lead to many possibilities! Now start making conversations with her slightly more romantic and stretch them a bit. This is the point where you start up with the flirty behavior. From these conversations, she should feel that you like talking to her and are interested in what she has to say.

From your overall behavior, it should be strongly that you like her. Women like being liked! They also go ga-ga over the right kind of compliments. Make her feel special; don't just tell her that she is beautiful, instead, tell her that her eyes are mysterious and have an intelligent spark in them. Look into her eyes while she is talking to you. Do not look at another girl passing by. Use simple flirting techniques to make a woman interested in you. Touch is a very intimate way of flirting. A simple touch will create a strong bond between the two of you. Pat her shoulder or invite her for a thumb fight game. If have reached a level of comfort then you can even hug her goodbye.

There are many keys to flirting but these are to be chosen by you knowing the level of comfort and the nature of the girl you are thinking about. Show your confidence in your talk and body language. Remember that flirting is not just about making her laugh with your jokes and being cute. You should properly tune into the stuff that goes on in her mind and this will get her interested in you.

You may pick up any topic and drag it into the flirtatious grounds. You should always remember that women can immediately tell whether you are flirting with her or not. You should try to make flirting as natural as possible and you need to accept it as your style. Do not stop yourself due to fear of being rejected. If you do this, then you will have normal and boring conversation with the women and you will miss something very interesting in your life.

Keys to flirting are varied and need to be implemented in different situation. You can also invent your own distinct flirting techniques. Be yourself and do not cross the limits or make her feel uncomfortable in any way. Focus on what your reactions are and do not worry about the outcome of all conversations. If you are being yourself then the reactions will be correct and automatic. It is very important to show yourself in good light.

About the Author:

Rameesh Kumar is a flirting expert teaching men how to flirt with girls. To start flirting with girls better, read on.

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