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Four Laws Every Man Must Learn

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Written by Chris Benjamin

Sunday, 16 March 2008

by ChrisBenjamin

Some men are nice guys. And then, some men are "nice guys" - you know the ones - the ones that have a tin of female friends but have never had a girlfriend in their whole life? These men, these doomed, lost brothers who are stuck in the dreaded "friend zone" NEED to read this article. I'm going to tell you what these "Nice Guys" are doing wrong. And maybe, just maybe, you could be making some of those same mistakes.

There are several key concepts that are LAW when it comes to attracting women. These are in no particular order, but they are each very important to understand if you want to know what makes attraction work - and use that to your OWN advantage.

Getting right to it - the first of these immutable laws is that Attraction is NOT a choice. I know you have probably heard dating advice experts like David Deangelo or Lance Mason say that before - but the thing is - it's true. Attraction isn't a choice. You don't look at someone and think, "Hey! I want to be attracted to HER!"

The second law is also very simple. The hot people, the attractive people, get the choice of who they want to date. The hot girl gets her pick of guys, and has guys throwing themselves at her day and night. And it gets pretty old, pretty fast. So if you want to get her attention, you have got to stand out from the pack.

The third law is the one that takes the cake. Attraction does not make sense. Ok - so every girl you have ever been friends with dreams of Prince Charming who will sweep her off her feet, shower her in jewels and flowers, and treat her like a Princess. BUT - who is she dating? The jock with no neck that treats her like she is covered in pigskin. Why? because she is attracted to him, and attraction is not a choice!

Law four is often overlooked, but it is crucial. Status counts. No woman is going to be attracted to a man that she thinks is licking the heels of the big ddog in front of him. If you want to get her attention, you have to be an alpha male, the leader of your pack.

The thing is - women are on the lookout for the man that sparks that attraction in her. She may not even know what that "thing" is, but I do. That thing that women want is the man to be a real MAN. Not a wuss, not a wimp, not a "nice guy". That may seem counterintuitive - but let me ask you this - how's your current game plan working out for you so far?

What can you do to stop the attraction killing behavior? There are a few simple steps you can take to get your cajones back and get the girl. One - stop being NICE to attractive women. No compliments, no pleasing her, no gifts, no crap just to make her like you. As a matter of fact - bust on her a bit. Tell her she is a brat. Tell her she is being bad and you won't talk to her until she can be nice.

Secondly - you need to practice saying NO to hot girls. I'm not saying be rude - but if you are at the supermarket and she asks you to please reach that box of cheesy flavored cardboard soy rice crisps on the top shelf - say no. And then once she has quit blinking at you like a poleaxed calf, you can tell her you have decided to be kind and help her since she is obviously in such distress. THAT is Cocky Comedy. It works!

Last, but certainly not least - respect YOURSELF. Do not change who you are for anyone, least of all for a pretty face. Don't let her take control or push your buttons for any reason. Respect yourself and people will respect you as well.

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