| Getting Your Girlfriend Back- Why Do You Need Her Back? | | Print | |
| Written by Claire Tourney | ||||
| Saturday, 12 April 2008 | ||||
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If you are going through a break up and can't bear the thought of losing your ex girlfriend take a step back and ask yourself why you are so afraid of being without your ex. Do you have recurring thoughts like? I'll be completely useless without her. She was everything to me. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. There's no one else as good as her. I'll never be happy without her. These thoughts aren't helping you in the least right now and they really aren't true either. You can absolutely be a happy guy again without her, and if you don't understand this you're going to have a harder time whether or not you do succeed in getting your ex girlfriend back. If you go on thinking that you can't make it without this person or that you are afraid to be alone then you will have problems in this relationship and in any relationship in the future. The truth is you have to be OK with yourself first. Not only will you be happier but you will be more attractive to your ex girlfriend and to all women in general. So if the reasons listed above are the only ones you have for getting your ex girlfriend back you need to think about whether you really do need her or you need to find yourself instead. You don't want a relationship based on neediness, but rather on love. Although many romantic movie cliches portray romantic love as two people who confess how much they need each other, this is a co-dependent type of relationship instead of a healthy, whole relationship that will last and make you both happy. So if you are feeling more needy than loving right now, that's OK. Take some time and work on yourself and allow real love for your ex girlfriend to unfold. You can choose to love instead of cling and this will boost your confidence enough to give your ex girlfriend the space she may need right now. And it will give you time to reflect and plan before you make your next move to get your ex girlfriend back. You will be amazed at how much better you feel when you choose to let go of the neediness and focus instead on the things you love about your ex and some of the positive reasons why you want to get back together. This is a much SMARTER way to get your ex girlfriend back! About the Author: Hi I'm Claire Tourney. Please check out Get Your Ex Back On Squidoo to learn how you can be a happier, more confident guy and discover a PROVEN, successful plan for Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back                  Only registered users can write comments.  Add as favourites (0) |  Quote this article on your site | Views: 36
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