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how to get my ex back with a simple technique

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Written by Ricardo Daryans

Tuesday, 13 May 2008

by RicardoDaryans

Is there a "magic" method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. How cool is that? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.

So I am going to answer "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?" Yes, this can be done, but be warned! In our ebook, we lay out a complete strategy, not just some easy tricks that would fail in the long run. If you use this technique alone, without an overall plan or strategy you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. Remember, this is about getting back your ex for a wonderful relationship and more.

Let's start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don't fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse, Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you." Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don't want your ex to call you back because he pities you!

The Emergency. "Hello, I am calling you because I have an emergency, please call me as soon as possible." Your ex can catch this fake call a mile away. What does this say about you? Only that you are desperate enough to lie, and this is clearly not going to help you.

AS you see, these will not do. You don't want to be a liar nor be pitied by your ex. Instead, lets review a simple method to get your ex back on the phone.

Use curiosity and self interest. The most powerful forces in the human mind are our curiosity and our self interest. This is the big secret: combine the two and you have an instant "magic" technique. This will work every time!

In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. this is a call that is going to be returned.

Now, Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. Think about the times you spent togheter, when she/he pointed something about you, or gave you an advice or maybe let you talk when you needed it most. Surely there are some good things you can think about. But more importantly, Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out BEFORE you call. If you don't, you will get the call back, and date with your ex, but no more than that and you will be back to square one.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is: What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Using this simple technique, you will have your ex calling you back, but you have to do more to get her/him back for real.

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