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Society - Dating

Written by John Harris

Thursday, 13 March 2008

A lot of guys want to know how to practice the techniques and concepts I teach. The best way to practice is to find women whose job it is to talk to you. I'm not suggesting visiting the local red light district. What I'm talking about are waitresses, bartenders, hostesses, and cashiers.

by JohnHarris

Practice proper body language, eye contact and voice tone when you are around these women. Practice starting up conversations with these women. A good way to do this is by playfully teasing them!

Remember, this should be an on going thing. You should weave these ideas into your personality so that they are natural. The only way to do this is by practicing. Every day. Don't get lazy on me. You do want to succeed with women don't you?

Always be prepared. Have on nice looking clothes and look your best whenever you leave your house. You don't want to see a great woman and not feel confident enough to approach because you look like a bum.

Playfully teasing a woman is a great way to start a conversation. Look for something she is wearing, doing, or talking about and make fun of her about it. Just remember not to insult her. This should be fun and playful.

Make it your goal not to pick her up, but to make her smile and laugh. This will reduce the pressure on you and will eliminate "performance anxiety". It's paradoxal, but when you take the pressure off of yourself by letting go of outcome and living in the moment, it increases your chances because it loosens you up. Women will notice your looseness and playfulness and will respond more favorably.

Finally, I want to remind you of having the proper frame. The wrong frame: I'm going to try and impress this girl and show her how great I am. The right frame: I'm going to give this girl a chance to get to know me. If she plays her cards right, she might get lucky.

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