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Avoid the "I Want" Syndrome

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Written by William Blake

Friday, 04 July 2008

by WilliamBlake

Children are such precious little beings. They add that special something to our lives. But when they start to complain about wanting everything under the sun, we can't imagine what that "something" is. Here are some tips for parents who are dealing with, or want to avoid, this classic syndrome that can affect children.

Complaining is not cute behavior and parents must learn that it should not be tolerated or rewarded. Throwing a temper tantrum because they cant have a certain toy from a store should not be considered a cute phase that the child just happens to be passing through. Indulging the child to end the embarrassment of a public tantrum is not helpful either.

Keep in mind that a childs mind learns at a tremendously rapid pace. If a child finds that throwing an awful tantrum is the way to get what he or she wants, this behavior will make itself into a deeply entrenched bad habit that only becomes harder to break as time goes on.

Giving children a weekly allowance can help. Since children receive everything they have from their parents, the parents money appears to them to be theirs as well. While household payments and purchases are made by Mom and Dad, it doesnt mean that a childs every desire has to be fulfilled by them as well.

An allowance gives kids something they never had before: their own money. A child that understands money will be fascinated. As the money grows from week to week, share with them how saving money allows them to afford toys that they buy themselves.

Watch your spending habits. Children mimic what they see. If their parents buy everything that they want, the child will likely want to do the same. Include your children in the family budget. Convene a family meeting once a month to discuss the financial picture.

Explaining how saving works in their favor gives kids a head start in the money game. Explaining to kids that parents also have to save for things they want and for family vacations, gives them a better understanding of family finances. Money really doesn't grow on trees.

Children will always want things; its part of who they are. But they can be taught to be less greedy and share with others if parents teach them well. When children are still young and their allowance is small, let them spend their money at the dollar store.

Youngsters are a prime target of television commercials advertising the newest and best toys. When kids ask for things, telling them well see or maybe will be interpreted by them as a yes. Teaching kids to save up for such purchases themselves or to make wish lists for Christmas and their birthday can help them view money more realistically.

By applying these tips, children can be helped to understand that, though they may want everything they see, life simply doesnt work that way. Helping children to become financially responsible so early in life is a priceless gift.

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